When in a relationship, whether in marriage or courtship, there are certain things I feel you shouldn’t tell anyone (third party). This is because you never know who will use such information against you or your partner to destabilize your relationship.
1. Don’t tell anybody how weak your partner is. No one needs to know. And it may be used against you or your spouse in the future.
2. Don’t tell people how much you quarrel with your partner. Rather make them see it as amazing from outside, while you settle issues from inside. That is not to say you should lie and paint your relationship as being perfect.
3. Don’t tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband. If they ask, tell them he is giving you more than enough to take care of the family.
4. Men shouldn’t tell their friends how good your wife is in bed, that’s a secret between you and your wife. What happens in the bedroom should remain in the bedroom
5. Don’t ever tell your mother the way your man is acting in the marriage. You won’t like the outcome if she’s a jealous mother-in-law.
6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your partner and that’s why you shouldn’t tell them what moves him.
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7. Just the way you don’t tell your parents everything that happens in your home, don’t tell your pastor how many times you quarrel with your husband. He or she does not need to know.
8. Don’t tell your children that their father or mother is a bad person. It can generate hate against your spouse. Speak good of your partner in the presence of the kids and your family members.
9. Don’t tell anybody your partner’s past mistakes, it is too risky for your relationship. Let his/her past errors you are privy to be buried in your mind. And never resurrect them.
10. Don’t tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. You may end up losing your partner to that person.
