If you rush into a relationship with someone because you feel lonely or need a rebound, chances are you may end up brokenhearted.
Here are 4 reasons why you should take your time before getting into a relationship:
1. YOU WILL MAKE A BAD CHOICE.
By rushing into a relationship you are bound to make wrong choices; like choosing someone who is not your dream partner, you will compromise on compatibility, which may steer you into a lot of relationship problems.
In this case, you will sacrifice a lot of your desires; act like it is all going well to keep things smooth. But in the end, it only leaves you exhausted, disinterested and demotivated.
2. IT SHOWS DESPERATION.
Nobody feels comfortable around a desperate person, especially a desperate partner. Also no one likes to be with someone who is attention-seeking all the time. Such persons lack direction in life and are mostly not sure of themselves. They are also people who do not know what they are passionate about and have no concrete plans for their career. Tell me, would you want to be with such a person?
So going into a new relationship with elements of desperation may just end the relationship even before it gets started.
3. WANTING A SENSE OF DESPERATION.
Are you rushing into a relationship because you hate your single life? Because if you are, you probably may not like being with someone too.
The void of unhappiness that you are trying to fill by getting committed to someone will likely reappear when you start living with the person, unless you are happy and grateful for whatever life you are living, you may not find the cure for your dissatisfaction.
4. FALSE SENSE OF INTIMACY.
Some people rush into a relationship for sex. Even though sex is an important aspect of a relationship, it should not be the basis of commitment.
With this false sense of intimacy, you may only end up ignoring your partner’s emotional needs and only focus on meeting your own physical needs. And this will be a recipe for disaster.
Don’t rush into a relationship just because all your friends are in one or because you are unhappy with your single life. Try and find the main cause, be happy with your life the way it is now, and be patient with its flow.
Be relaxed and things will unfold at the perfect time and pace. Trust me, you will meet a lot of persons along the way. And you will know it when you find the right one.
