I really need your advice on this. I am currently in a dilemma. I have been a housewife for three years and the marriage is blessed with two beautiful kids; a boy and a girl.
Before I got married to my husband, he was caring, loving and provided for me. He made sure I was comfortable and lacked nothing.
When I was pregnant with our first child, the pampering and love I got from him was such that I was overwhelmed. He was every woman’s dream.
My fellow woman raped me and I still feel sad over the incident
But everything changed after I gave birth to our second child. My husband stopped being caring. He comes home late at night and when I inquire to know why, he makes up excuses. I was barred from touching his phone. If I insist, he’ll say I’m nagging.
I have been cooking good and sumptuous meals for him over the years, but of recent he has been complaining about my cooking and I believe it’s an excuse for him to stop eating my food.
Two weeks ago, I asked him for some money to start up a business, he bluntly refused. He told me he has other important things to do with his money than to give it to me to start a business that’ll collapse within months.
I was heartbroken. My husband using such harsh words on me? I cried profusely that day.
The next day, I went to see his best friend. I narrated all that happened and how my husband has been treating me.
He told me my husband doesn’t deserve a woman such as myself. He started telling me how beautiful I was and that he could give me the money I am looking for only if I agree to be his lover.
I couldn’t say anything. Different thoughts kept revolving in my mind. How can my husband’s best friend be asking me out? What has taken over him?
Right now I’m at the crossroads. I don’t know if I should tell my husband or accept his friend’s proposal since my husband doesn’t have time for me.
From Sonia.
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